to satisfy the oversharer, and simultaneously veto the endless commentary, consider sharing something else---still personal but less invasive---that satisfies their urge to connect. when they really cross the line, say something that indicates your boundary is being crossed. "that's private" says everything.
additionally, a compliment also works wonders with an oversharer, because it refocuses the conversation in their direction while subtly resetting your boundary. for example, i could h**e given this wise response to my nosy family friend at the baby shower:" you made h**ing kids look so easy ! how did you do it ?"
i missed my chance that time. but next time, i'll be ready to face an oversharer---or the other challenging people it takes to make a world.
为了满足过度分享者并阻止无休止的评论，请考虑谈论其他事情---这是个人的---但不那么咄咄逼人可以满足他们交流的愿望。 当他们越过底线时，说一些表明你的底线被突破的话。 一句话“这就是隐私！ “一切都完成了。
此外，对于过度分享者来说，赞美可以创造奇迹，因为它们将谈话的重点重新集中在他们身上，并巧妙地重置了你的界限。 例如，我本可以在婴儿送礼会上对一个爱管闲事的朋友多管闲事：“你让生孩子看起来很容易！ 你是怎么做到的？ ”
我错过了机会。 但下一次，我将准备好面对一个过度分享者---或其他尖酸刻薄的角色，他们是世界上一个多元化的群体。
结构分析：
第一句话词干：
, consider sharing something .., consider sharing something ..
动词不定式满足 。and ..to) veto ..作为目标状语;
决定性条款：
that satisfies their urge to connect.
修改某些东西;
第二句词干：
say something ..say something ..
时间状语从句：
when they really cross the line, .
决定性条款：
that indicates ..that indicates ..
修改某些东西;
definite 子句包含对象子句：
(that) your boundary is being crossed.
作为符号的对象;
第四句，简单的句子;
第五句词干：
a compliment also works wonders with an oversharer, .
原因状语从句：
...because it refocuses the conversation ..
第六句，简单句+直语;
简单的句子采用虚拟语气：could h**e given ..
第七句是简单的句子;
第八句词干：
...i'll be ready to face an oversharer ..or other challenging people ..
决定性条款：
...who/that) it takes to make a world.
改变具有挑战性的人;
词汇表短语：
work wonder.神奇，神奇;
it takes to make a world.数以千计的事物构成了世界; 一种米，养百种人;
森林很大，有各种各样的鸟;