the desire to explain sometimes stems from thinking it's just a misunderstanding. however, the truth is, others may find plenty of reasons to dislike you, and no amount of explanation may outweigh their willingness to believe you once.
我之所以要解释，是因为我有时认为这应该只是一个误会。 但其实对方可以找太多理由恨你，就算你解释了很多遍，也不如对方愿意相信你一次。
whether to let go or to take things lightly, it's crucial not to dwell on such matters. after all,you're not the kind of person they are, and you can't truly know what's on their minds. even if you did, it doesn't guarantee happiness.
不管是放手还是拿下来，这种事情都不用再担心了。 毕竟，你不是另一个人，你不会知道他们心里在想什么。 即使你知道，你也不一定会快乐。
life is filled with many things to attend to;don't let yourself be consumed by unnecessary conflicts. remember, only you can determine who you are. never be someone familiar to others but a stranger to yourself.
人生有很多事情要做，你不应该小心翼翼地生活在无缘无故的对与错之下。 记住，只有你能决定你是谁，永远不要成为你认识但不认识的人。
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